Thursday, June 2, 2011

Death in the Family

We lost my Aunt Joy this week, the first death in the family since the kids arrived home. We had long emotional discussions about death, heaven, funerals, etc. The kids decided they could write notes (actually little books) to their parents in heaven and have Aunt Joy deliver the notes to their parents. The notes are adorable and heartbreaking. We want to keep them for the kids 'lifebooks', but we are afraid they will feel betrayed if they later learn we did not put the letters in Aunt Joy's coffin for delivery to heaven.

Here is Emmy's:

Dear Mom and Dad. I miss you. I was crying cause you died. I will miss you. I wish I could celebrate your birthday. I love you. I hope you like heaven (drawing of heaven). You will be in my heart always (drawing of heart). I have wonderful cousins and uncles and aunts that love me (drawing of peace). My favorite things is math (drawing of Emmy in school). Love Emmy and Emnet

Here is Marin's:
Dear Mom and Dad. I miss you and I love you. My favorite sports are soccer and basketball (drawing of two balls labelled soccer and basketball). My favorite food is injera and fruit (drawing of injera and fruit). My favorite subject is math and reading (drawing of two schoolbooks labelled math and reading). My favorite teacher was Mrs. Cohen (drawing of Marin and Mrs. Cohen). I have good parents in America. I have a good family in America and a new baby cousin (drawing of family). Here are my new parents and me and Emmy (photo of us pasted in). Love Marin and Meron


Erin Starks-Teeter said...

That is very sweet. You could scan them in to save them...

scooping it up said...

so sweet.

Sean and Mic said...

I just stumbled across your blog, not even sure which blog I saw it on- but anyway, I found it, and have to say- I absolutely love your writing- and your family story. I have had to go back and read much of your girl's story- and it is amazing. I should mention, I am a mom of a little girl from China, and while much of your experience is so different then mine (ours)- so much of it is the same. Thank you for sharing your stories. I look forward to reading more. Oh, and the story of Emmy not sharing because another kid in pre-school sticks their hands down their pants- well, that had me laughing really, really hard. What a smart, smart girl!